We mined hundreds of Men’s Health articles about sex and relationships to find the all-time best tips we’ve ever given about meeting women, wooing them, and being the best lover they’ve ever had. You can thank us later.
Sex isn’t a Race
Sex isn’t a race, so take time to explore her. Focus on her thighs and lower belly. Make a mental circle 2 inches around the outside of her vagina and don’t cross the line while you kiss, lick, and caress.
Give Her Plenty of Time
If you want morning sex, set your alarm at least 20 minutes early. A woman won’t want sex if she’s hurried, and she’ll probably need about 20 minutes to reach orgasm.
Grunts are Better Than Nothing
She’ll give longer and more enthusiastic oral sex if you give her a verbal response. Even appreciative grunts are better than silence.
Vary the Stimulation
When you’re all the way inside her, add side-to-side movement
or up-and-down pelvic pressure against her clitoris to vary the stimulation.
Make a Fantasy Lottery
Both you and your lady write five sexual fantasies down on five separate notebook cards. Then head to a restaurant where you can get a booth and some privacy in a public setting. Over dinner and wine, pull out the cards and make three piles – “yes,” “maybe someday,” and “not on your life.” Put the possibles in a shoe box, and once a month pull out a winner.
Mimic Her Style
Ask her to kiss your earlobe with the same pressure she prefers during oral, then cop her style next time you’re south of the border.
Work out together. Think of it as fat-burning foreplay. It will raise her dopamine levels, easing her anxieties. Bonus: Your post-run sweat has androstadienone, a testosterone derivative that spikes her arousal when she smells it.
Remain calm when a decked-out bombshell strolls by and you’ll be sending the message that you’re too smart to be wowed by a Wonderbra and red lipstick.
Give Her the Perfect Compliment
The best compliments are the ones that involve multiple senses. “You have beautiful breasts” is nice. “You have beautiful breasts – they feel so soft and warm in my hands” is that much more intimate.
Don’t Give in to Temptation
If a woman who knows you’re spoken for comes on to you, it’s flattering. It’s tempting. But remember that she’s doing it to feed her own ego, not yours. She wants to see how much power she holds over you. And if you take her bait, she then knows she must be superior in every way to your sweetie. Deep down, she has nothing but contempt for both your male weakness and your mate’s existence. That should really piss you off.
Find Her G-Spot
Use your thumb to press on her G-spot, as if you were making a thumbprint on her vaginal wall. You’re shooting for the area about 2 inches inside the vaginal opening, on the front side.
Use Your Tongue Wisely
When kissing, don’t use your tongue like a dart (in and out, in and out). Instead, try varying motions and amounts of pressure.
Doggy-Style the Right Way
Doggy-style tip: For over-the-top stimulation of her most nerve-packed parts, keep thrusting short and shallow, rather than deep and fast.
Tell Her What She Wants to Hear
Words she loves to hear: “I want to make you feel good.”
Hang Out with Your Married Pals
Looking for The One? Don’t abandon your spoken-for friends. A guy with a wife or live-in girlfriend has an expanded social circle – meaning he knows more women (that he could potentially introduce you to) than he did when he was single.
Keep Contact Indirect